When was the last time you hear the ever-famous line: “Tell me who your friends are, and I’ll tell you who you are”? Normal statement different reactions arise. Can you really tell, define and even predict your being if only for your friends? We can.
Friends are not made they’re born as they say. As a rising teenager, I can clearly verify my friends. The person who taught me the essence of being a friend would keep on as my best friend ceaselessly. She taught me the central groundwork of friendship –TRUST. Anyone who can trust and knows how to trust could be your friend undying. Can a friendship last without trust? A friend who’ll mind you, be familiar on how to cry and laugh, placate you in times of madness, lends you money when you’re in trouble, talks to you every second she gets, and escort you wherever you want to go without even you complaining, have you ever tried owning a friend so dear? I’ll bet that from all the ups and downs you’ve been into, trust would always exist.
Possessing a friend could be of such great value. It doesn’t matter how many friends you have as long as you have one whom who understands every move you make, life is sweet. But if you can have as many as you can as long as you know they are trusted, grab them and never let go for life is way sweeter and is worth the living.
Friends have one common goal and that is to be genuine. They could be of different kinds and of different personalities but they will be respected for where they belong. Have you tried befriending a person who has a low profile, at times you even think she doesn’t exist for she’s quiet, but, she do have a razor-sharp mind and can also put make-up on her face? Or have you gone for someone who doesn’t care too much of herself as long as she can serve her friends she’d still be breathing? How about a person who loves music and cool stuffs, a frank person, childish but wishes to have a boyfriend and you are left amazed that stuffs like that could hit her? Or even a friend so rich that could treat you half the food stuffs you could find in the nearest mall to your school, treating you takoyaki, Japanese cake, Boba Boy, potato marble, siomai with gulaman, etc.? How about someone who have a strong personality, someone wild but at the end of the day, cries for all those body pains she feels everytime she goes home from training? Have tried to go for someone who’s practical but do have some unexplained and hasty generalization about some actual situations in life but still considers the feelings of his’ friends? How about for someone who thinks the most pervert things you could imagine but still knows how to think and act wisely and could be the person you can laugh with even though you have the lamest joke ever existed? How about befriending the smartest boy in your class, you’d think he’d always be thinking about grades but trust me he also thought of some leisure in life and could be the most humble person you’ve ever known? Go for someone who has beauty and brains, back and front, left and right. How about a person who’s too quiet even when around friends but would be the first person to hear your issues? How about the person you accused of something rude that eventually could be the person who could give you light, heaven and reality?
A friend would always be a friend even you not noticing it.
A friend would be a friend if you happen to experience different aches, call it stomachache, headache, toothache, backache, or even heartache. Treasure your friends. Cherish the moments. Revive every minute you spent with them. Acknowledge their presence. You’ll never know when they’ll leave. Hug them. Kiss them. Miss them. Love them.
Creating a real and true friendship would be difficult. Let time fix things up. Let Heaven answer your questions. Let everything be real. No pretensions. No backstabbing. No lies.
Have a heart that feels. Have a mind that speaks. Have a friend that’s real.
Now, can you tell me who really am I?
moimoi
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